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OBITUARIES
Martin A. Anderson, 71
Barnstable - Martin A. Anderson,
71, died July 21, 2006, at Cape Cod
Hospital in Hyannis.
He was the husband of Irene M.E.
(Hallgren) Anderson for 41 years.
Mr. Anderson was born in Stock-
holm, Maine, and raised in Bel-
mont.
He spent two years with the mili-
taryinFort Dix,N.J., and worked for
ServiceMasterIndustriesofDowners
Grove,Ell.,for more than 16years.He
also had management assignments
in New York and various Boston
hospitals,andheworked forWheaton
College in Norton for several years.
He was affiliatedwith Christ Cha-
pel in Centerville.
Mr. Anderson enjoyed collecting
coins and stamps, reading and the
Red Sox. He most loved spending
time with his family, especially his
four granddaughters.
Besideshiswifeand granddaughters,
survivorsinclude two brothers,Harley
Anderson ofNewHampshire andLloyd
Anderson of California; three sisters,
BirdenaPeterson of Stockholm,Natalie
Dam of Tacoma, Wash., and Phyllis
Stranahan of Newton; and several
nieces and nephews.
He was also the father of the late
Birgitta E. Anderson El-Hajj.
Services were held at Christ
Chapel in Centerville, and burial
was in Lothrop Hill Cemetery in
Barnstable.
Lewis Howard Bacon, III
Centerville- LewisHoward Bacon,
III, 86, of Centerville died last week
at home after a long illness.
He was the husband of Beatrice
Pantano for 54 years.
Born in Boston, he was raised in
Newtoninhisearlyyears,thenmoved
to Weymouth.
He graduated in 1943from North-
easternUniversity,receivingadegree
inmechanicalengineeringandfound-
ing the sailing team.
During World War II, he served in
the U.S.Navy as a Lieutenant (J.G.)
onthe USSLCS91. He served alsoas
a Vice Commanderin the U.S.Coast
Guard Auxiliary.
He enjoyed an early retirement
from Anderson Power Products of
Brighton in 1982. He and his wife
owned and operated Captain's Hill
Motel in South Harwichfor 15years,
moving to Centerville in 1986.
He was a master yachtsman, car-
penter and gardener.Hispassion was
the buildingof his16'Cat Boat,which
was launched in July 2002.
In addition to hiswife, he issurvived
by two sons, Lewis H. Bacon, rv of
Andover and Kenneth G. Bacon of
Watertown;twindaughtersCynthiaF.
BaconofWestYarmouthandCarolAnn
Bacon of Centerville; a sister, Phyllis
Bruce ofBrewster;eightgrandchildren
and one great grandchild.
A memorial service was held at
Doane, Beal & Ames FuneralHome
in Hyannis.
Memorialdonations maybe made
to Hospice &Palliative Care of Cape
Cod, 270 Communications Way,
Hyannis, MA 02601.
Wilton B. Crosby, 83
New Smyrna Beach, Fla. - Wilton
Bradford "Bill" Crosby,83, died July
25, 2006.
He was the husband of Barbara
Edwards Crosby and wasthe former
husband of the late Elizabeth J.
(Underwood) Crosby.
Mr. Crosby was born in Hyannis
and was a graduate of Barnstable
High School, Luscomb School of
AeronauticsinTrenton,N.J.,andEm-
ery Riddle Flight School in Florida.
Hejoined the Air Force at the end of
WorldWarIIandflewF-86SaberJets
withthe 51st Fighter Wingin Korea
in 1952. He served in the Air Force
Reserves for many years, retiring as
a lieutenant colonel.
After returning from Korea, he
workedatthe familybusiness,Crosby
YachtBuilding and Storage Co. Inc.,
in Osterville.He operated abranchof
thatbusinessinHyannisforatime.He
wasone offive co-ownersof the boat-
yard,operatedbythe Crosbyfamilyin
Osterville since the early 1800s until
it was sold in 1972. He continued to
work for Crosby YachtYarduntil his
retirement in the 1980s.
He was involved in all aspects of
the business, including the design of
several power boats built at the yard,
and was involved in construction and
care ofthe Wianno Senior sailboats and
Crosby Stripers for many years. In the
late 1960she wasinvolved inthe design
and construction of the first Crosby
catboats built by the yard since 1935,
whichproved to be thelasttwowooden
Crosby Catboats built in Osterville.
He loved boating, participating
in Newport-to-Bermuda races and
in schooner races off Gloucester
and Nova Scotia as well as regattas
around the Cape and Islands.
He was on the board of directors
for the HyannisCooperativeBankfor
many years, and he was a founding
member of the Catboat Association
and amember ofthe Saber Jet Pilots
Association.
He was a longtime resident of
Osterville and Barnstable before
movingto Florida in 1988.
Besides his wife, survivorsinclude
a son, Britton William Crosby of
Osterville;astepson, Richard Shultz
of Columbus, Ohio; a stepdaughter,
MarthaAlbertiof Marietta, Ga.; and
six grandchildren.
A funeral was held at St. Peter's
Episcopal Church in Osterville.
Burial was in Hillside Cemetery in
that village.
Memorial donations may be made
to Osterville Historical Society; or
to Hospice of Volusia/Flagler, 3800
Woodbriar Trail, Port Orange, FL
32129.
Stephen M. Doyle, 46
Canton- Stephen M. Doyle, 46,
formerly of Osterville and St.Davids,
Pa., died July 28, 2006, at his home.
Mr. Doyle was born in Detroit
and raised in St. Davids. He gradu-
ated from Radnor High School in
Pennsylvania. He then graduated
from Boston College and enjoyed a
successful sales career.
Survivorsinclude hismother, Mary-
Joan (Cronin) Doyle Carson of Vil-
lanova, Pa.; five children, Paul, Mark,
Kristin,JacquelineandShannonDoyle,
allofFramingham;threebrothers,John
Doyle of Cockeysville, Md., Jeremiah
Doyle of Belmont and Richard Doyle
of Southlake,Texas;asister,Kathleen
White of Centerville;many niecesand
nephews;andhisformerwife,Catherine
(Silver) Doyle of Framingham.
A funeral Mass was celebrated in
St.Bridget'sChurchinFramingham.
BurialwasinSt.Joseph Cemeteryin
West Roxbury.
Memorial donationsmaybe made
to the Boston College Fund, c/o BC
Development Office, More Hall 220,
140 Commonwealth Ave., Chestnut
Hill, MA 02467.
Dorothy C. Eastham, 99
Osterville - Dorothy C. Eastham,
99,diedJuly27,2006,at theAcademy
Manor Nursing Home in Andover.
Born in Lowell, she graduated
from Lowell State Teachers College
and earned a master's degree from
Rivier College.
Her first teaching assignment
was in a two-room schoolhouse in
Marstons Mills. She also taught in
the Barnstable Village elementary
schoolbefore takingateachingposi-
tion in Billerica.
For more than 30years she taught
at the Bartlett SchoolinLowell.Dur-
ing her later years she was affiliated
withtheUniversityofMassachusetts
at Lowell as a training teacher for
elementary education students.
Inretirement,MissEasthamwasa
member of the choir and the Ladies
Guildat OurLadyoftheAssumption
ChurchinOsterville.Shewasassoci-
ated with the Friends of Osterville
Library,the Massachusetts Retired
Teachers Association and several
other professional organizations.
Her favorite pastimes included
bridge, Scrabble, music, reading
and crafts.
Survivors include a sister-in-law,
BarbaraEasthamof Osterville;three
nephews; six nieces; and 13 grand-
nieces and grandnephews.
A funeral Mass was celebrated
at Our Lady of the Assumption in
Osterville.Burial wasin Mosswood
Cemetery in Cotuit.
Memorial donationsmaybe made
tothe GreaterLowellAlzheimer'sAs-
sociation,220 Pawtucket St.,Lowell,
MA 01854.
Dolores A. Flick, 71
Osterville -DoloresAnn(Barboza)
Flick, 71, died July 22, 2006, at Cape
Cod Hospital in Hyannis.
Mrs. Flick was born in Fairhaven
and educated inBarnstable schools.
She wasa bookkeeper for F.W.Wool-
worth Co., in Hyannis, and later did
housecleaningfor private homes.
She enjoyed bowling, cooking,
gardening and spending time with
her grandchildren.
Survivors include three sons,
Gregory M. Flick of Fremont, Calif.,
Jeff L. Flick of Osterville and Donny
W.Flickof Sandwich;four grandchil-
dren; and her fiance, John Kovack of
Marstons Mills.
A graveside service was held in
Mosswood Cemetery in Cotuit.
Memorialdonationsmaybemade
to the Myeloma Research Founda-
tion, 383 Main Ave., 5th Floor, Nor-
walk, CT 06851.
Alfred L. Lariviere, 80
Cotuit - Alfred L. Lariviere, 80,
died July 26, 2006, at his home after
a long illness.
He was the husband of Gloria
(Marchesseault) Lariviere for 59 years.
Mr. Lariviere was born in South-
bridge and spent most of his life in
Monson before moving to Cotuit
in 1999.
HewasaWorldWarHveteran,serv-
ingwiththeNavyinthePacific.Later
he worked in the trucking industry
as a traffic manager.
He was a member of the Osterville
Baptist Church, served as the trea-
sureroftheProgressiveClubandwasa
member of the Villagers Social Club.
He was an avid bowler and a Red
Sox fan.
He especially enjoyed the com-
panionshipof hisgrandchildren and
great-grandchildren.
Besides his wife, survivors include
two sons, Brian Lariviere of West
Brookfield and Mark Lariviere of Ly-
donville,Vt.,adaughter,ElaineJoubert
of Gardner, N.C.; a brother, Robert of
Scotch Plains, N.J.; a sister, Lorraine
Mathieu of East Hampton; seven
grandchildren; two great-grandchil-
dren; and six nieces and nephews.
Afuneralwasheld atthe Osterville
Baptist Church. Burial was in the
Massachusetts National Cemetery
in Bourne.
Memorial contributions may be
made to Hospice &PalliativeCare of
Cape Cod, 270 Communication Way,
Hyannis, MA 02601.
Marcia L. Magee, 83
Hy annis - Marcia L. (Brooking)
Magee, 83, died July 24, 2006, at
Windsor Nursing Home in South
Yarmouth.
She was the wife of Robert W.
Magee, who died in 2003.
Mrs. Magee was born, raised and
educated in Boston. Her interests
included music,singingand playing
the piano. She especially enjoyed
spending time with her family.
Survivors include two sons,
Mitchell F. Magee of Hyannis and
Richard J. Magee of Arvada, Colo.;
two grandchildren; and four great-
grandchildren.
Memorialdonationsmaybemade
to American Cancer Society, 720
Main St., Hyannis, MA 02601.
Elizabeth M. Milliken, 73
Centerville - Elizabeth M. "Liz"
(Dwyer) Milliken, 73, died July 23,
2006, at her home after a yearlong
illness with lung cancer.
She was the wife of Joseph "Jack"
Milliken for 45 years.
Mrs. Milliken was born and raised
in Waterbury, Conn., and gradu-
ated from Waterbury Catholic High
School. She majored in speech and
drama at Catholic University of
America in Washington, D.C.
A lifelong student, she attended
many colleges around the country,
includingher recent associationwith
theAcademyfor LifelongLearningat
Cape Cod Community College.
As a teaching aide in the North
Adams Public School System, she
became a certified Massachusetts
Adult Education instructor and
taught adult education in North
Adams and Adams.
Following in the footsteps of her
mother, an original Navy service
womaninWorldWarI, Mrs.Milliken
joined the Air Force in 1950 and
served asadentaltechnicianfor four
years.Shere-enlistedandcompleted
OfficerCandidateSchool.HerlastAir
ForceassignmentwasastheHospital
Registrarat OtisAirForceBasewith
the rank of first lieutenant.
She was an accomplished writer
andreceivedanumberof awardsfor
her writing over the years. She and
her husbandperformed innumerous
small theater groups in New York,
Illinois, Massachusetts and New
Jersey, including the Barnstable
Comedy Club in Barnstable.
Upon her retirement to Cape
Cod in 1998, shejoined Post 188 the
AmericanLegioninSandwich,where
she served as post secretary for two
years and then as post adjutant for
two years. She was also an active
member ofUnit 188LadiesAuxiliary
and worked for many years on the
bingo committee.
Besides her husband, survivors
include three children, William J.
Milliken of Martinez, Calif., Mary E.
Edmonds of North Adams and Jay
Milliken of Willow Grove, Pa; three
sisters,AnneStoppleworthofBolton,
Conn., Helen Stephenson of Grover
Beach, Calif., and Lyn Jacoby of So-
noma,Calif.;five grandchildren;and
many nieces and nephews.
AfuneralMasswascelebratedat Our
Lady ofVictoryChurch in Centerville.
Burial followed inMassachusetts Na-
tional Cemetery in Bourne.
Memorial donations may be made
toOurLady ofVictoryBuildingFund,
230S.MainSt.,Centerville.MA02632;
or to American Lung Association, 61
Broadway, New York, N.Y, 10006.
Blanche Robertson, 85
West Yarmouth-Blanche (Kulcyk)
Robertson, 85, died July 27, 2006, at
her home in West Yarmouth.
Shewasthewifeofthelate George
A. Robertson.
Mrs.Robertson was born in Ohio.
She graduated from AliquippaHigh
School and St. Francis Hospital for
Nurses inPittsburgh as aregistered
nurse. Following graduation, she
worked at St. Francis Hospital.
She entered the U.S. Army and
served in the 194th Medical Group
and was stationed in France. Af-
ter her discharge, she returned to
nursing, this time at St. Elizabeth
Hospital in Boston.
Mrs. Robertson moved to Cape
Cod in 1952 and worked for more
than 30 years with the Cape Cod
Hospital. After her retirement, she
worked at Mayflower Place Nursing
and Rehabilitation Center in West
Yarmouthfor several years.
She was a member of the Massa-
chusetts Nurses Association and a
communicant of St. Francis Xavier
Church in Hyannis.
Mrs. Robertsonissurvived byfour
children, Gordon A. Robertson of
Woburn, George A. Robertson Jr.of
Rockport, James D. Robertson of
West Yarmouthand H. Gail Robert-
son ofWestYarmouth;two brothers,
Joseph Kulcyk of Beaver, Pa., and
John Kulcyk of New Smyrna, Fla.;
three grandchildren; and several
nieces and nephews.
AMass of Christianburialwascel-
ebrated at St.FrancisXavierChurch
inHyannis.Burial wasin St. Francis
Xavier Cemetery in Centerville.
Hairdresser's attitude...
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the responses have been won-
derful."
She personifies a saying on
T-Shirts advertising the She-
pley Lumber Co. of Hyannis:
"Attitude is everything'- and a
positive attitude, says Aspden.
iswhat got her through despite
a "stomach ache" the day they
moved the house.
For example, she said that
whileridingwithHayden shesaw
unavoidable damage beingdone
to the house'sexterior from tree
branches. "If you hadn't been
there."shesays,"you would have
wondered where the damage
came from and why."
Patience and upbeat willing-
ness to gamble on business
instinct has paid off for Asp-
den. When the mother of three
was a hairdresser working for
somebody else, she harbored a
dream of some day owning her
ownsalon.Soshe quietlylooked
around.
Opportunity knocked - and
Aspden answered - when she
found her current Colonial
4-bedroom. 2-full and two half-
bath,2,764squarefoot residence
in a village business zone that
would allowher to have a home
occupation - the salon. "Then
I figured the kids could come
home from school and walk
thoughthe salonto sayheUo and
check in while I worked."
She sold her house for funds ,
bought the place and shortly
thereafter used IRA savings
and equity in the house to buy
six surrounding acres wrapped
in a "legal mess" that included
a parcel leased to the postal ser-
vice. More hoops. More jumps.
Then, in time, success.
"I eventually sold off most of
the sixacres but kept oneparcel
next to the salon for a future
parking lot." But when she
learned of the Chatham House,
shewent toTownHalltoexplore
the zoning. "I was told that I
could have another house on
the same property. That's rare.
The zoning really is what made
it allpossible.At the time,it was
an investment and a chance to
recycle a perfectly good house
that I could rent."
The move was prescient.
Shortly afterwards, her son in
law suffered a broken neck, a
precursor of difficult financial
timesahead.Now,Aspden says,
her daughter andfamilywillsell
their more expensivehome and
move into the cottage.
The salon, she says, is the
kindof placewhere someclients
"come a half-hour before their
appointment and stay a half-
hour afterward" to enjoy the
camaraderie and a cup of coffee.
"Sometimes there's food, too."
It'sanetwork place, she says.
"Look," she said, walkingto a
counter to retrieve an album
of business cards. "These are
people I've dealt with and been
satisfied ," which, she says, is
"always"in her case. "If a client
happens to mention they need
a certain service, we go through
the book," she said, to find a
suitable provider or vendor.
Aspden says she can't esti-
mate the number of hours she
spent chasing permits, getting
advice, "just thinking," acquir-
ing, moving and finishing the
cottage. But she'll recite costs
for this or that permitor service
that, in the end, she says, will
figure out "to about $70,000 for
athree-bedroom,one-bath cot-
tage in very good condition."
Ever the optimistandrecycler,
Aspdensaysshe now feels quali-
fied "to guide anybody though
the details of moving a house."
In that vein, she advocates one
central,officiallisting,perhapsby
the county,ofallhousesslatedfor
demolitionon the Cape but first
being offered free to takers.
She believes there is oppor-
tunity for housing authorities
and municipalitiesowningland
to take advantage of these
offerings to create affordable
housing, or private parties who
can, evenunder more stringent
zoning,usethemasadditionsto
existinghousing.
Acentrallistingseemsagood
idea from a woman who knows
- but will officialdom pounce?