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LETTERS Do fire study and move on Whenever there is talk of a "fire district study " to determine the "best fire service at the least cost to the taxpayer,"the fire district invariably take the position that a study is totally uncalled for and completely unneces- sary because the existing arrangement is the "best at least cost." Well, perhaps! But since this issue will not go away, I would think they 'd welcome a study as an opportunity to demonstrate , once and for all, that they are right . Then we can all move on. Steve Prence Cotuit Band boost appreciated I was so pleasantly surprised when I opened up my copy of The Barnstable Patriot this week , that Ijust had to say thank jou from all of us in the Barnst able Band. Th? two color pictures and caption are so excitin? to see and I will share it with the band this Wednesday night (for those who do not subscribe to The Barnstable Patriot but should!). This will definitely encourage us in continu ng t o build the best town band on the Cape. Thank you again for helping us share the music. Deborah Stewart Barnstable Band Political potpourri That good book ,Merriam-Webster 's, defines potpourri as a miscellany of flowers , herbs and spices or e.g. "the best songs." Barnstable townies often cater to another not-so-sweet- smelling presentation: "political potpourri. " Some samples follow. Twoweeks ago cit izen Tom Dolby (one -1ime School Committee head) was nominated from the Council ARC for an Airport Commis- sion chair. This act flew right in the face of Council Appointments Committee , a group that was accused the same nigh t of running a "Star Chamber " selection scam Mr. Dolby was turned down by the Committee. In his stead they nominated a former CEO of the Horsley-Witten engineering firm which is in the pay of Barnst able Municipal Airport. Clearly, the Horsley-Witten alumnus is in an ungraceful state of conflict of interest. He is also not the generalist needed. Yours truly has formally asked this gentlemen to retract his nomination. Horsley-Witten is a common denominat or in Airport , Cape Cod Commission. Barnstable , and Yarmouth affairs. It has worked for them all and at times proved the old saw that you can't serve two (nay, many ) masters at once. Take a gander at the Rectrix/BMA 61-page suit; you'll see! Or, the recent Golden Triangle deal up in Sandwich. 'Follow the money." said Deep Throat of Watergate fame. Well, one can follow pot- pourri odor. At a recent meeting of the Fire District Alliance. COMMan Knute Silva admonished Town Councilor Barton she always denied "Public Comment."Mr. Silva, who chaired the Alliance, allowed a scheduled public comment item to be overturned by a sudden motion to adjourn made by Councilor/COMMan James Crocker. So passed. Nary a whelp was heard from firefighters or Ms. Barton. Potpourri's moral: Don't let firebugs in the firehouse of freedom. Peter Doiron Barnstable Village 1C0RNER ¦ s 'imMmmmmn-i By Paul Gauvin By Paul Gauvin pqauvin@barnstablepatriot.com On a brisk March day, Town Coun- cilor Gary Brown of Hyannis made a "quick" lunch-hour stop at the Island Merchant Restaurant at 5 Ocean St., to conduct business with owner Joe Dunn II. He swung into one of the two driveways owned by The Cape Cod Times that flank the restaurant - the one between the Is- land Merchant and the defunct Penguin's SeaGrill building recently purchased by the Times. The driveway was empty "and nothing was going on," Brown said. He said he had parked there briefly several times without any problem. "I'd been in the Merchant for a few min- utes when some guy came storming in and abruptly asked: 'Can you read?' I told him I have a college education and yes, I can read." From that point , Brown said , the episode deteriorated into a threat about towing his vehicle, an option also noted on a no-parking sign in the driveway that Brown obviously could read but ignored on occasion. Restaurant owner Dunn , standing behind the bar, said he was astounded at the man's approach toward one of his customers. "You would think he would have come to me - the owner - with his complaint. There was no warning or anything." Mike Fabia, the Time's press and prop- erty supervisor, said last week Brown's vehicle had been spotted in the same spot four or five times. He said there are a lot of problems with people parking on Times property. He declined further comment. Looking upon the incident from a shelf behind the bar was the photo of a young Navy officer - Dunn 's father - who remains "missing in action" in Vietnam and whose widow, Dunn said, was interviewed this week by the Cape Cod Times. This anecdotal conflict exposes the hu- man friction that insufficient parking can induce between unlikely entities. There were a few other incidents among the par- ties since then, one over spilled grease, the details of which serve no advantage but to obfuscate the larger point of deficient parking in that part of town. It's a worsening problem exacerbated by "smart growth" and Brown's plea to Town Manager John Klimm for two-hour park- ing limits on the public lot across Ocean Street from the restaurant and Cape Cod Times. Dunn says his license is predicated upon utilizing spaces in the lot since he lacks private parking. The predicament from his perspective, which caused him to quit the lunch business, he said, is the all-day park- ing in the lot by newspaper personnel and others. "There is no law against it," says Tom Geiler, director of the town's regulatory division. He says the only rule governing the lot is a 3 to 5 a.m. ban to discourage islands-bound tourists from parking for multiple days. "Businesses are supposed to have x- amount of parking space per 100 square feet of business space. Restaurants have a higher requirement. If they can't meet it and are within 500 feet of a public park- ing lot , they can get relief from the zon- ing board of appeals to use that space for parking, but it doesn't give business reserved spaces. Anybody can park there. As far as I know, a lot of other people are having the same problem ," Geiler said , an observation that one would think would provoke some remedial action by the town Instead , the town has under consider- ation a request by the One Ocean Street development proposal at Main and Ocean streets for ground-floor retail and 22 apartments on the second and third levels, with inadequate underground parking. Like the Island Merchant and other nearby businesses, One Ocean Street wants relief from parking requirement by also using the already burdened Ocean Street lot. It is evident that the area needs a rem- edy for its long- and short-term parking dilemma. Fix the short-term and you exac- erbate daylong parking that is also needed for large employers. Catch 22. It's time to dust off plans for a down- town parking garage and seek mitigation for a 3-tier type on the Ocean Street lot and a bit into the town green to make it worthwhile. Bickering neighbors won't solve anything - or any other solution. Short of that , Dunn unfortunately sees his parking plight as a David and Goliath situation - only this time. Goliath is the likely winner. Unpleasant confrontation spurs councilor's move on parking lot ] ACROSS TIME 6 PLACE RETROSPECTIVES FROM THE ARCHIVES IVY LEAGUE - The facade of the building built as Barnstable Town Hall in 1926, now home to the JFK Hyannis Museum and the Hyannis Area Chamber of Commerce, is still unmistakable under the ivy that once covered its Main Street face. This color postcard published by J. Lazurus in Hyannis bears no date, but from the bomb shelter sign in the front and the plantings, we reckon it to be from the early 1960s. Mature leadership By Stew Goodwin columnist@barnstablepatnot com Let's face it folks, it's not working. The methods being employed for conflict resolution in many sectors: intimidation : confrontation; and retaliation , are produc- ing escalations not results. Extremists seem to have hijacked policy with moder- ates rarely putting in an ap- pearance. Darts , verbal and actual, fly to and fro indis- criminately skewering both contestants and bystanders. Our world threatens to burst into flame at any moment. There is hardly a topic or a geographi- cal area unscarred by deep divisions. And those divisions are being transformed into canyons with aggressive partisans dug in on opposite rims. Diplomacy resembles a juvenile spat or a bitter divorce where the blame game rules and the parties in dis- pute generate justifications for not talking directly to one another. I know that it can be a real task to con- verse with those who hold sharply differ- ing views. I realize that it can be hard to favorably regard those on the other side of any fence. But things are getting out of hand. Radical changes are called for as zero-sum-power plays erupt all over the place. Collegiality is becoming a forbid- den activity. Safety is appearing less like normality. Tornados of animosity race across the landscape with their deadly spirals intensified by endless supplies of weaponry. Unfortunately, this bleak snapshot is rein- forced by a flood of daily reports. However, those who value peace and moderation are not without ammunition of their own. Dialogue, negotiation and compromise do not have to be signs of weakness or ap- peasement. The people who constructed our nation , to name just one example . considered those characteristics to be cornerstones of strength. Democracy by its design facilitates dialogue as it is defined by free elections. Our country can certainly concentrate on promoting this inherent principle of com- munication. We can stop trying to cram alien cultures into some idealistic replica of ourselves, and be patient with the develop- ment of unfamiliardemocratic institutions. If we are sufficiently supportive , people might learn how to talk to each other about controversial issues and spend less time planning how to blow each other up. Providing the gift of pro- ductive dialogue to the world would constitute real leader- ship. It would be a sharp con- trast to the artificial variety that brandishes military might or simplistic slogans while at- tempting to carve every sub- ject into only two segments: good and evil. Practicing and teaching the art of dialogue could transform the twenty-first century into a truly democratic one. It could ease the tensions that stand ready to snap, and help to erect bridges instead of barriers. Above all, this strategy could empower moderates and consequently shrink the number willing to permit extremism. As such the promotion of dialogue would constitute a progressive policy for global survival rat her than the regression we are now experiencing. This world of ours is crying out formature leadership to pull it back from the abyss into which it is descending. If we were to encourage discussion that could result in acceptance if not agreement we would be leading by example. This would be a refreshingly intelligent and moral course that might generate enough momentum to dampen impending conflagrations. On June 10, 1963 President John F.Ken- nedy delivered an address at American University in Washington , D.C. His advice on that occasion is equally applicable today. "World peace , like community peace , does not require that each man love his neighbor; it requires only that they live together in mutual tolerance , submitting their disputes to just and peaceful settle- ment. And history teaches us that enmities between individuals , as between nations , do not last forever. We all breathe the same air. We all cherish our children 's future. And we are all mortal. " I By I David Still II About this time two years ago, I was freshly back from a midsummer's vacation in northern Vermont. I'd been asked by my grandfather on Christmas Day - actually it was more a statement with which I agreed ("Hey, we should go to Vermont sometime.") - and arrangements were made from there. He was born and raised in Fairfield , just outside St. Albans , where his brother still lives. My grandmother was from the neigh- boring town of Franklin, where her father was something of a big wheel. When she died near Thanksgiving in 1996, she returned for a final and permanent time to the family plot in Franklin. While In Vermont , we planted flowers at my grandmother 's grave. This was my first trip to my grandfather 's home territory and Nana's grave , but he'd been back several times and , based on the incomplete inscription on the left-hand side of the marker, I knew he and I would be back at least one more time. "Lloyd John Cyr, August 23, 1921 - " I said something along those lines. He said something like , "Yeah," then fully understood what I meant and gave a good laugh. The return trip came six months later, Feb. 1, 2005, five days after he died from a brief but stubborn illness. I'd been meaning to write something since, but each time I'd start , it seemed forced and not particularly relevant , so it was set aside. I told a couple of his friends after the funeral service , at which I didn 't speak, that I was better in print (which I am), and to expect something in an upcoming issue. Well, there have been 79 issues since then and I've yet to commit anything to print. With what would have been his 85" birth- day a couple of weeks away, now seemed the right time. In season, we golfed weekly, or tried to. He'd usually get the better score, if we kept track , which says more about my game than his, but that wasn't the point. We started golfing regularly after my grandmother died. He spent the last two years of her life as-her caregiver, withdrawing a bit from what had been their life to do so. After she passed and he'd mourned, he reemerged. Bowling, golf- ing, weekly Yahtzee games, church and other on-hold aspects of his life. It was during this time that I came to see him as someone other than "Gramp. " He became a man , a human being with a past life complete with struggles, successes, failures, triumphs and a whole lot of ordinary and fascinating parts. It's not that he wasn't all of those things before , but they remained hidden to me un- der the easily understood moniker of Grand- father. I also had the privilege of seeing him come back to life . While never dismissing what his life had been , he understood that what was before him after Nana died was another op- portunity, and he embraced it. He still puttered , plodded and said "garsh," but he allowed new things to enter his realm , enjoying most. He spent 22 years in retirement on Cape Cod , living a life typical of many of his con- temporaries. He came with his wife of 40- plus years, found new friends , lived , became caregiver, then widower, rediscovered himself dated , lived some more , and died with a good number of people saying he was one of the good ones. He was. He was my grandfather , but more than that, he was my friend. Peace be with you, Gramp. ?T!» ¦ " "¦ "^g^.JWS^ ¦-^-*':: «3