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OBITUARIES
Claire V. Avery
Stuart , Fla. - Claire V.
Avery, formerly of Hyannis,
died March 17, 2006, after a
brief illness.
She was the wife of the late
Red Avery.
Mrs. Avery served as a
VISTA volunteer , worked
at the Perkins School for
the Blind, and served as a
program assistant for the
Cape Cod WIC program. She
enjoyed playing bridge and
was an avid golfer, playing
into her mid-80s.
Survivors include a neph-
ew and several nieces. She
was the mother of the late
Rose Avery.
A memorial service was
held in the chapel at Lahey
Clinic in Burlington. Burial
was on Spruce Head Island
in Maine.
John H. Aguiar, 62
Hyannis- John H. Aguiar,
62, died March 25. 2006, at
Essex Pavilion after a long
illness.
He was the husband of
Barbara "Cookie" Aguiar of
North Port . Fla.
Mr. Aguiar was born
in Hyannis , educated in
Barnstable and graduated
from Barnstable High School
in 1961. After graduating, he
worked at Meyers Furniture
and Carpets of Cape Cod. He
later started his own carpet
installation company.
In the late 1960s , he spent
his summers as an auxiliary
police officer in Barnstable.
He tended bar at many loca-
tions over the years, includ-
ing the Swamp Fox. Doug's
Pub, Backside Saloon, East
End Grille and Main Street
Grille.
Among his passions were
pool, darts, cars and New
England sports. He also
loved cooking and was writ-
ing a cookbook.
Besides his wife, survivors
include two sons, Scott M.
Aguiar of Port Charlotte ,
Fla., and Mykel J. Aguiar of
North Port, Fla.; his mother,
Ida Aguiar of Hyannis; a
brother, Charles Aguiar of
Hyannis; and a sister, Judy
Baker of Marstons Mills.
A funeral Mass was cel-
ebrated at St.FrancisXavier
Church in Hyannis,followed
byburialinSt.FrancisXavier
Cemetery in Centerville.
Virginia M. Deal, 86
Cotuit- Virginia M. (Mer-
rill) Deal, 86, died March
26, 2006.
She was the wife of Edwin
W Deal, who died in 2001.
Mrs. Deal was raised and
educated in Michigan, where
she attended Hillsdale Col-
lege and graduated from
Wayne State University.
She was a teacher in Cape
Elizabeth and Portland ,
Maine, while her husband
served in World War II.
She moved to Cotuit in
1979.
Mrs. Deal was very ac-
tive at St. Mary's Episcopal
Church, where she served
on the altar guild for many
years.
Shewas one of the original
members and a past vice
president of the Pi Beta
Phi Sorority Alumni Club of
Cape Cod.
A memorial service was
held at St. Mary's Episco-
pal Church in Barnstable ,
followed by burial in the
church's memorial garden.
Memorial donations may
be made to St. Mary's Epis-
copal Church , Route 6A,
Barnstable , MA 02630; or to
the charity of one's choice.
Lily Lambert
McCarthy, 91
Bryn Mawr, Pa. - Lily Lam-
bert McCarthy,91,formerly of
Osterville, died March 3,2006,
at her home after a yearlong
illness with cancer.
She was the wife of the
late John G. McCarthy. They
were married in 1944.Shewas
the former wife of William
Fleming. They were married
in 1934.
Mrs. McCarthy wasborn in
NewYorkCity,raisedinPrinc-
eton, N.J., and attended the
Foxcroft School in Middle-
burg, Va. She summered in
Osterville with her parents
in the 1920s.
She had a lifelong passion
for collecting memorabilia
of Admiral Lord Nelson, a
hobby she continued to enjoy
after retiring in 1970 to East
Sussex, England. In 1972,
she presented the collection
to the Royal Navy. It is now
housed in the Lily Lambert
McCarthy Nelson Gallery at
the Royal Naval Museum in
Portsmouth.
Mrs. McCarthy was a vice
president of the Society
for Nautical Research in
Greenwich and was elected
president of The 1805 Club,
a worldwide group of Nelson
enthusiasts.Queen Elizabeth
II appointed her anhonorary
commander of the Order of
the British Empire in 1972.
In 1986, she and her hus-
band bought asummerhome
in Edgartown and joined
Edgartown Yacht Club.
Theymoved to Osterville 10
yearslater andbecame mem-
bers of the Wianno Club.
Survivors include five chil-
dren, David W. Fleming of
Worcester and Brewster, Lily
L. Norton of Camden, S.C.,
Peter C. Fleming of Rock-
ville, Md., John G. McCarthy
Jr. of Geneva, Switzerland,
and Ann R. Zavala of San
Jose, Costa Rica, and Arling-
ton, Va.; a sister, Mrs. Paul
"Bunny"Mellon ofUpperville,
Va., and Osterville; and 11
grandchildren.
A funeral Mass was cele-
brated March7atGood Shep-
herd inBrynMawr.Burialwas
in Princeton, N.J.
Salvatore Frank Jr.,
84
Hyannis - Salvatore Frank
Jr., 84, a Hyannis resident
for more than 20 years, died
March 24, 2006, after a long
illness with cancer.
Mr.Frank wasborn in Con-
necticut.
As a member of the Sea-
farers' Internationa] Union
of North America, he served
many years in the Merchant
Marine. He assisted the mili-
tary during World War II in
the Atlantic, Pacific, Medi-
terranean and Middle East
theaters, as well as in the
Korean and Vietnam wars.
Survivorsincludetwo sons,
Harvey and Richard Frank,
both of Rhode Island; three
granddaughters; and two
great-grandchildren.
Memorial donations may
be made to Seafarers Disas-
ter Relief Fund,c/o Secretary-
Treasurer 'sOffice,Seafarers
International Union, 5201
Auth Way, Camp Springs,
MD 20746.
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Darby commentary 'riddled with inaccuracies
Councilor Crocker responds
EDITOR'S NOTE: The following
correspondence from Osterville
Town Councilor Jim Crocker
to Councilors Janet Joakim
and Leah Curtis was sent last
Friday in response to their Guest
Commentary in the March 31
edition of the Patriot. It has been
recorded with the town clerk and is
reprinted here in its entirety. Minor
differences in the text are the result
of corrections to typographical and
grammatical errors.
Re: Patriot guest
commentary,
"Darby"
Fellow Councilors:
I understand your commit-
ment to defeat the request
for COMM's Water Easement
contained in agenda item 2006-
100. 1will not make any attempt
to influence your positions on
this item. I am writing today to
influence the approach we all
take as Town Councilors to this
item: please treat this item with
the same due diligence, non-
personal approach as I've seen
from you two Councilors in the
past.
Why do I take the time to
write the E-mail to talk about a
common sense approach? Be-
cause your Guest Commentary
Article in the Patriot is riddled
with inaccuracies. I don't want
to believe the article was writ-
ten with the intent to spew in-
accurate incorrect information.
When any councilor sponsors an
agenda item, one needs to cor-
rect false public perception and
inaccurate information. It will
take many hours away from my
family and livelihood to correct
the damage from this poorly re-
searched article. I will do it; but
it angers me to have to spend
my time this way. As we've all
seen of my personal flaws, I
don't hide my anger well! I'm
never angered over a disagree-
ment of opinions; I'm always
angered over covert personal
attacks that lack substantive
empiracal support.
To support my position of
the inaccuracies of your Guest
Commentary Article. I propose
the following for your consider-
ation:
1) Item 2006-100 requests a
Conservation Restriction.
FALSE:The agenda item at
my request of the Town Man-
ager's office does not include a
conservation restriction.
TRUE FACT:A conserva-
tion restriction normally would
not allow pumping for Public
Well Supply without a recorded
exemption.
TRUE FACT:Your article is
riddled with fear and loathing
techniques about an impend-
ing dooms day effect should a
"non-existent" Conservation
Easement be placed on the land
when in fact that type of ease-
ment isn't requested.
2) The fear and loathing techniques
regarding Water Treatment costing
millions of dollars for each well.
FALSE: Is the perception that
not all wells are treated before
consumption by the public.
FALSE: Is the perception that
DEP-approved wells don't nor-
mally cost millions of dollars.
TRUE FACT:All wells have
some form of treatment by DEP
regulations based on sampling.
TRUE FACT:Every well costs
millions of dollars. I stated this
during the Asset Review of the
Barnstable Water Company.
TRUE FACT:The document
circulated to each of us from the
Groundwater Geologist DeNatle
states that wells cost millions of
dollars.
3) The fear and loathing technique
that land we paid millions for would
be restricted to passive recreation.
FALSE:The impression
throughout the article that the
entire land would have restric-
tions.
TRUE FACT: The easement
as sent to us Councilors after
GIS calculations state 17.71AC
of upland affected by the ease-
ment. The Darby parcel is 106
plus acres according to GIS
calculations.
TRUE FACT:The Town will
not deed out the Pond area in
the easement because the Town
was not deeded the Ponds.
4) The fear and loathing techniques
that ball-fields will not be permitted
in the area.
FALSE:The assertion that
the balance of the area can't
accommodate a ball field or
co-habitat with a zone one well
field.
TRUE FACT;The easement
leaves over 53 acres of upland
not encumbered by either the
original acquisition conserva-
tion title or this request of
COMM. Several ball fields can
be built on 50 acres.
TRUE FACT: Ball fields
can co-habitat with Zone 1
well areas. Barnstable just
built McBarron Fields on Old
Falmouth Road, Marstons Mills,
with a COMM active well only
several hundred feet to the
South.
5) The incorrect assertion regarding
the COMM and Town Agreement.
FALSE: The statement that
the design recognized water
issues.
TRUE FACT;The water is-
sues you reference are septic
and pond water issues.
TRUE FACT:The agree-
ment didn't address Public Well
Supply because no science was
available at the time.
TRUE FACT:The Agreement
was drafted prior to public well
supply testing and in fact it was
this Agreement which allowed
for COMM to enter the property
for public well supply testing.
6) The article states Osterville
affordable housing plans "have not
yet come to fruition;there has been
little to no progress to date."
FALSE:The assertion is un-
substantiated and false in every
arena.
TRUE FACT:I placed myself
in a tough spot to resolve a
legal conflict with the Swee-
ney parcel. The Town took the
Sweeney parcel and Sweeney
was suing for damages. The
Town Manager, the Legal De-
partment and myself brought
all parties to the table; as-
sisted in a resolve which got Mr.
Sweeney the parcel and a LIP
program for affordable units on
that site.
TRUE FACT:I have several
hours of work with Osterville
Village Association (OVA) get-
ting the redraft of the Local
Comprehension Plan (LCP) to
identifying in writing support
for parcels to be developed
under the affordable housing
umbrella.
TRUE FACT: I have recently
requested of the Manager's
Office the drafting of RFP's on
these sites after the budget
season.
Editorializin g
Thisinaccurate statement is
apersonalinsult to me after the
hours of time I have invested to
see progress. Each of you two
councilors come from Villagesthat
have missed their 10% quota by
more than 300housingunits.What
have you two accomplished in your
Villageto foster ahousing plan?
I respectfully request you
two councilors take time and a
microscope to review my above-
mentioned factual points. I look
forward to your response. I am
recording this E-mail with the
Clerk on Monday because of
the late hour. My only request
is that you respond in writing
and also record that response
with the Clerk. We do not need
another assertion of bad behav-
ior for not making our positions
and e-mails known to the pub-
lic. I await your response.
TRUE FACT:WATER IS
THE COMMUNITY'S LIFE
BLOOD; WATERMUST BE
AVAILABLEFOR ALL OF THE
COMMUNITY'S FLOCK.
Robedee on Dean 's List
Danielle Robedee of Cotuit is on the Dean's
List at St. Andrew's Presbyterian College in North
Carolina. She is the daughter of Wendy and Richard
Robedee Jr.
Gardiner appointed regional
director
Cotuit resident Richard J. Gardiner was recently
appointed Regional Director of Rehabilitation Ser-
vices for Harborside Healthcare in Massachusetts
and Rhode Island.
They're no wash ashores
Arriving at Cape Cod Hospital in Hyannis recently
were:
• Alex William Menezes, born March 22 to Alex-
andre and William Menenzes of Marstons Mills
• Charlotte Conway Macnamee,born March 23 to
Robert and Colleen Macnamee of Cummaquid
• Ewerton Decastro Jr., born March 21 to Ewerton
and Elaine DeCastro of Hyannis
• Owen Blake Kuhn Dent, born March 20 to John
and Sara Dent of Centerville
Garreffi named to Dean's List
Rachael A. Garreffi of Centerville was named
to the Dean's List at Bates College for the first
semester. She is a 2004 graduate of Barnstable
High School.
Perrault
salutes
Mozart
Pianist and
teacher Anne
Francoise Per-
rault of Cum-
mauqid returned
to the Longy
School of Mu-
sic in March to
perform at a
celebration of
Mozart's birth-
day. The former
chair of the
piano department at the Cambridge school is ac-
cepting students and performance opportunities
on the Cape.
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